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sexta-feira, 3 de abril de 2009

Abismo do desencanto

Um trecho do livro que estou lendo me chamou muito a atenção, pois é uma realidade já vivida por mim e me colocou a pensar e refletir sobre os famosos 'pedestais' em que colocamos as pessoas amadas. A história do livro vai ter seu rumo, mas independente dele quero discutir apenas esse momento e falar do abismo do desencanto.

"Às suas costas, tão perto de sua orelha que só ela pôde escutá-la no tumulto, tinha ouvido a voz:
- Este não é um bom lugar para uma deusa coroada.
Voltou a cabeça e viu a dois palmos de seus olhos os outros olhos glaciais, o rosto lívido, os lábios petrificados de medo, tal como os vira no tumulto da missa do galo pela primeira vez em que ele estivera tão perto dela, mas ao contrário daquela vez não sentiu agora a comoção do amor e sim o abismo do desencanto. Num instante teve a revelação completa da magnitude do próprio engano, e perguntando a si mesma, aterrada, como tinha podido incubar durante tanto tempo e com tanta ferocidade semelhante quimera no coração. Mal conseguiu pensar: "Deus meu, pobre homem!" Florentino Ariza sorriu, procurou dizer alguma coisa, procurou acompanhá-la, mas ela o apagou de sua vida com um gesto da mão.
- Não, por favor - disse. - Esqueça. "
(O Amor nos Tempos do Cólera - Gabriel Gárcia Márquez)

Também um trecho da música Devaneio de Jorge Vercillo traduz perfeitamente a idéia do abismo do desencanto.


“Mergulhei no mar / E não dava pé

Me apaixonei / Mas não sei por quem

Sonho com alguém / Que você não é...

Eu me entreguei demais / Eu imaginei demais (...)”.


Quantas e quantas vezes já nos pegamos assim encantados, abismados e embasbacados. Quantas e quantas vezes já colocamos a mão no fogo por nossos tão sinceros sentimentos e por acreditar tão piamente na eternidade deles.


Eternidade...


Afinal, o que é eterno? Ninguém melhor o descreveu do que nosso querido poetinha Vinícius em seu tão famoso Soneto de Fidelidade:


"Eu possa lhe dizer do amor (que tive):
Que não seja imortal, posto que é chama
Mas que seja infinito enquanto dure"


Mas como acabará? Quando acabará? Como receberemos a notícia de que é chegado o fim? Acaba para um ou para os dois ao mesmo tempo? Tão raras são as vezes onde acaba para os dois... Sempre vai ter um que sofre, sempre vai ter um que chora, enquanto o outro comemora a alegria da liberdade em meio ao abismo do desencanto. Que estranha liberdade.


Durante o efeito do feitiço do encanto nada consegue atingir a imagem idealizada que criamos do objeto amado. Por mais críticas que possam existir, por mais que as evidências estejam tão claras às nossas vistas. Simplesmente não enxergamos, não escutamos, nos ensurdecemos e cegamos para manter acesa a chama da ilusão de que finalmente encontramos o tão sonhado amor perfeito. Colocamos o nosso objeto de desejo no mais alto dos pedestais e ficamos a admirar e amar independente de tudo, mesmo com o mundo caindo ao nosso redor.


Mas eis que chega o momento em que voltamos a ouvir e enxergar. E esse momento inevitavelmente chega. E geralmente acontece por acaso, sem maiores explicações. Acordamos de um sonho e nos deparamos com a realidade, enfim começamos a enxergar aquele objeto de desejo como ele na verdade é, na sua essência verdadeira, não mais naquela loucura insana que queríamos acreditar a qualquer custo.


E o mundo cai.
Não é o que imaginávamos.
Não merece nosso amor.
Ele é apenas mais um no meio da multidão.
É o abismo do desencanto.


Será possível viver sem se enganar assim? Nós gostamos de nos iludir, gostamos de idealizar, gostamos de criar a imagem do perfeito e intocável. Como evitar então o tal abismo do desencanto? Não sei. Mas acho que o caminho mais curto é não se encantar. Por mais difícil que seja acho que devemos tentar conter a nossa fértil imaginação, enxergar o outro como ser humano que é, com todos os defeitos e falhas que lhe são pertinentes. Colocá-lo num pedestal acima da realidade faz a queda ser muito maior, torna o abismo ainda mais profundo.

21 comentários:

  1. Esse abismo é inevitável e está no caminho de todos. Um dia nós encontraremos este abismo e será 'tchau e benção'.

    PS:Ei, você escreve muito bem!

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  2. Irmã, esse trecho de Márquez também traduz um momento meu. Olhos arregalados e mãos pensas: DESENCANTO!

    Um beijo!
    Vá.

    P.S.:O blog está lindo!

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  3. Difícil não se encantar. Mas acredito que o mais importante é sempre deixar um pouco de espaço para a razão.
    Ser 100% emoção sempre acaba nos trazendo um pouco de prejuízo. Precisa haver certo equilíbrio entre o coração e o cérebro. Rsrs

    Beijo.

    Ps.: Eu não disse que todos que fazem parte de alguma religião tornam-se alienados. Falei que, infelizmente, existem aqueles que se entregam a religião de uma tal maneira que perdem o bom senso, como as duas mulheres do meu post, por exemplo.

    Pois, assim como elas, há quem se aliene devido a um time de futebol, visão política ou qualquer outra coisa que lhe cause fanatismo.
    O problema não é e nunca será o que as pessoas acreditam, e sim como elas agem devido ao que acreditam.

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  4. Aprendi que nunca se deve generalizar. Rsrs

    Beijo, e fico grata por visitar meu blog. ^^

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Também um trecho da música Devaneio de Jorge Vercillo traduz perfeitamente a idéia do abismo do desencanto.


“Mergulhei no mar / E não dava pé

Me apaixonei / Mas não sei por quem

Sonho com alguém / Que você não é...

Eu me entreguei demais / Eu imaginei demais (...)”.


Quantas e quantas vezes já nos pegamos assim encantados, abismados e embasbacados. Quantas e quantas vezes já colocamos a mão no fogo por nossos tão sinceros sentimentos e por acreditar tão piamente na eternidade deles.


Eternidade...


Afinal, o que é eterno? Ninguém melhor o descreveu do que nosso querido poetinha Vinícius em seu tão famoso Soneto de Fidelidade:


"Eu possa lhe dizer do amor (que tive):
Que não seja imortal, posto que é chama
Mas que seja infinito enquanto dure"


Mas como acabará? Quando acabará? Como receberemos a notícia de que é chegado o fim? Acaba para um ou para os dois ao mesmo tempo? Tão raras são as vezes onde acaba para os dois... Sempre vai ter um que sofre, sempre vai ter um que chora, enquanto o outro comemora a alegria da liberdade em meio ao abismo do desencanto. Que estranha liberdade.


Durante o efeito do feitiço do encanto nada consegue atingir a imagem idealizada que criamos do objeto amado. Por mais críticas que possam existir, por mais que as evidências estejam tão claras às nossas vistas. Simplesmente não enxergamos, não escutamos, nos ensurdecemos e cegamos para manter acesa a chama da ilusão de que finalmente encontramos o tão sonhado amor perfeito. Colocamos o nosso objeto de desejo no mais alto dos pedestais e ficamos a admirar e amar independente de tudo, mesmo com o mundo caindo ao nosso redor.


Mas eis que chega o momento em que voltamos a ouvir e enxergar. E esse momento inevitavelmente chega. E geralmente acontece por acaso, sem maiores explicações. Acordamos de um sonho e nos deparamos com a realidade, enfim começamos a enxergar aquele objeto de desejo como ele na verdade é, na sua essência verdadeira, não mais naquela loucura insana que queríamos acreditar a qualquer custo.


E o mundo cai.
Não é o que imaginávamos.
Não merece nosso amor.
Ele é apenas mais um no meio da multidão.
É o abismo do desencanto.


Será possível viver sem se enganar assim? Nós gostamos de nos iludir, gostamos de idealizar, gostamos de criar a imagem do perfeito e intocável. Como evitar então o tal abismo do desencanto? Não sei. Mas acho que o caminho mais curto é não se encantar. Por mais difícil que seja acho que devemos tentar conter a nossa fértil imaginação, enxergar o outro como ser humano que é, com todos os defeitos e falhas que lhe são pertinentes. Colocá-lo num pedestal acima da realidade faz a queda ser muito maior, torna o abismo ainda mais profundo.

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  1. Esse abismo é inevitável e está no caminho de todos. Um dia nós encontraremos este abismo e será 'tchau e benção'.

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  3. Difícil não se encantar. Mas acredito que o mais importante é sempre deixar um pouco de espaço para a razão.
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